Stakes, Spoils, and Post-Match Punishment

A night is a long time to have control of another man, especially if you're not really into men.

You might be turned on enough to fuck him, but what happens after you've cum? Would you get hard again.

Don't start off by fucking him. Spank him, get him to lick your feet and ass, use him as a footrest, then tie him down for the main event.

Rim his ass a bit to get him ready for entry, start off slow, fuck hard, but stop before you cum (it takes discipline). He'll think it over, but you can punish him some more.

If you really don't think you'll be able to perform. the only fair thing to do is to throw the match. Make sure you've cleaned your ass. That's less humiliating for you then trying to dom with a soft cock.

Getting dominated and fucked after losing a match is less humiliating?

Make him verbally say that he lost/is a loser. Strip him during the match after you gain full control to make sure he knows you are in charge then continue wrestling so his nakedness reaffirms for him his loser status. Being sure to spank him and play with his nipples and groin while you have him trapped in holds to let him know his body is there for your pleasure. Good ways to get him into enjoying being dominated and then ask him to completely surrender to you when you are ready to move from wrestling to erotic. Have him peel off your Speedos while kneeling in front of you while you loom over him, sometimes I only let him use his mouth to accomplish this. Get him to repeat "I am a loser" with your dick in his mouth to drive the point home and he is yours.

When you win dominate him as you like and then let his loose so he can dominate you a bit and get you in the mood then regain control over him and it will feel great.

You could also make him your bitch in other ways like cbt,.. (depends what you guys are into).
Could imagine his reaction then gets you in the mood for other things too.

Have my first match coming up this weekend, was wondering if anybody with experience had any tips?
He and I have gone over the basics, first to 3 submissions, winner gets the loser for the night.
Confident in my fight skills, but not really into men normally but always been into the thought of dominating a guy and then taking him, just worried I might not be able to perform once I beat him.
Anyone with experience have any tips, any things to expect or prepare for?

I see you're a bit overconfident in your skills. The aftermath of winning is easy, what happens if you lose? Would you be able to pay up the stakes or chicken out? As preparation, I'd suggest getting cleaned up down there.

maybe, I wrestled all the way through college and was pretty good though, so I like my odds. might be a bit rusty but hopefully it's a good match either way.

Hey RayGun, You have an incredibly built body. If I were your opponent, I'd enjoy anything.

I think it's good you're thinking about this ahead of time. Have you mentioned this to your upcoming opponent? Maybe instead of direct physical sexual contact you could make him pose for you, etc, while you jackoff? See what the chemistry is like and just go with the flow. If the meet up is good, there will be less anxiety the second time you wrestle.

At any rate, have fun! That's the main thing. I hope you are victorius and you'll report back and let us know how it went.

Thanks! we've talked about things a bit, we're gonna have a leash and cuffs to tie up the loser. I think leading him around the mat on a leash will really get me going hopefully. I'll try to think of some ways to make it at least humiliating for him if it turns out I can't get it up.

You could do lots of prolonged holds. Ballgrabs. Facesitting. Making him massage u. Trampling. Spit in his mouth. Lots of fun domination

those all sound like great ideas. we've already talked about having toys/restraints to use on the loser, so I might just have to get creative when I dominate him. we've talked about it the winner calling the shots all night, so I might have to think of some ideas to fill time if need be.