blog de Small_Ben

It's something that has been happening to me lately. Well, not to me exactly, I'm as enthusiastic about wrestling as ever but it happens to a lot of people I'm contacting through here. A lot of convarsation are going something like this more often than not.

Me: Hey, how are you? Want to wrestle?
Other fellow: "Yes"
Me: "Awesome. What kind of wrestling you like? I enjoy ..... And..... I also like etc etc.
Other fellow: Cool.
Me: .... So, anything You want to try?
Other fellow: idk Full nelsons?
Me: Okayyyy, great! and what about gear? I have briefs, etc etc but if you want me to try other gear?
Other fellow: speedos
Me" Oh, Any other kind of set up for a match? Any ideas?
Other fellow: Submission.
Me: Okay, awesome I guess.

Ahhhhhhhh

Sorry but monosylable guys kill the mood for wrestling. I know all of us are busy with work and family but c'mon! Can't take a couple of minutes to set up a match properly? Show at least some exciment? Worst of all are the guys who contact me to wrestle and then become cold and hard to contact with and/or set up a match. Just cancelled one of those guys today because I cannot take it any longer. Maybe I'm wrong but the thing is, I love wrestling! It's actually pretty fun for me, and I love to set up a lot of stuff before the match. It's not a job, it's not a hussle, it's a hobby, a part of me that makes me very happy. If you're a busy guy, I understand but at least say so.

Other fellow:"Hey, wish we could talk more but I'm too busy right now but don't worry I will kick your ass".
Me: No problem, I understand. And I'll be the one kicking your ass.

Sorry and thank you to anyone who has read this rant. Any comment or advice would be appreciated.

This entry will be mostly about me and my story as a wrestler; soon I hope to write about my matches and meets with other wrestlers. I'm a very derivative writer so If you feel like leaving, just do, I get it. This will be short, I promise.

So, hi! My name is Ben, not my real name of course, but it's pretty close to the real one and is the one I'll be using here. What I really want is to get rid off the Small Ben thing and change it for something better like Ben Ram, or something more impresive.

I'm 27 years old andI've been in this world of wrestling for the past ten years. Yes, I've visited this kind of websites since I was a boy of 17, or even younger perhaps. I remember I used to start conversations with lots of guys back then, but never dared to meet someone for real, for I was a scared little guy and all people over this kind of websites seemed really old to me. Not anyone older than 25 for me, please. My tastes have changed, of course. I have matured. Even if I still prefer guys around my age or younger, I find wrestling men with much more experienced quite exciting and lots of 40 something year old guys are really atractive.
It took me until I was 21 years old to have my first wrestling match ever. Luckily, my first opponent, a guy some three years older than me, arranged almost everything: the hotel, the rendez-vous point, how to set the match, etc. God, I was scared. It was the first time I've ever had an encounter with another man in a hotel room, him wearing a black speedo, ripped and confident; me wearing white boxer briefs, thin as a twig and shaking. How it when? I lost of course. I wont go into full detail because I'd like to write about all my wrestling matches one day. The thing I'll say is that I had my revenge in our third third match the next year and since then I've kick that guy's butt in our sporadic encounter. I don't wrestle with him any longer.

So far my wrestling experience has been inconsistent but fairly fun at least. It will change, I'm sure. One of my main goals here is to make friends, and have matches on a regular basis. That'd be increadibly fun. I'd like to have a wrestler as a boyfriend one day. Not that I'm settle just to wrestler because you can't choose who you fell in love with, but it'd be great to have a match before go to sleep. Wrestling is the biggest turn on for me since I was like twelve and saw guys on tv hugging each other, rolling on the floor, wearing barely anything. Oh yes, I'm gay. It's nothing of a big deal in my life so I barely mention it.

Am I a good wrestler? I don't think so, but believe me, I'll be a great wrestler soon, that's a challenge I made to myself. I'd love to make a lots of men here my jobber boys altough I can be a jobber sometimes, mostly a heel, of course. There's nothing better in the world as an equal match between two studs where you don't know who is going to win. My body need an upgrade as well. Not interested in getting huge, but I' like to get ripped. Slim and hard as a rock.

That's it I guess, there is a lot I missed, for sure but those are things that I can write another day.
Hope you were a bit entertained with this.

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